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Breaking Free, Mental, Mindset,

How to Free Yourself by Asking Better Questions

“Quality questions create a quality life. Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers.” –Tony Robbins

Your mind works like Google. And like Google, the answers you get back are based on the questions you ask.

When you ask poor questions, you get poor answers….

YOU: Why am I so fat?

YOUR BRAIN: Because you’re a pig!/Because you’re a lazy jerk!/Because donuts are delicious!

Ya see, your brain is going to find an answer to match the question you asked it.

The key, then, is to ask your brain quality questions. Quality questions that are going to lead to quality circumstances.

So the better question is…

YOU: How can I make it easier and cheaper to eat healthier?/What healthy foods do I already love that will help me lose weight naturally?/What can I learn from this situation that will help me look and feel fantastic forever?/How do I look and feel when I eat shitty processed food, and conversely, how do I look and feel when I eat real quality food?

[NOTE: the key is to attach pleasure to the desirable action (eating healthy), and attach pain to the undesirable action (eating shitty). Having to and wanting to, are two entirely different positions which create two entirely different results. When you remind yourself that eating healthy gives you energy, increases your mental clarity, increases your confidence, lowers your anxiety, statistically increases how much you earn, makes you look sexier, and attracts suitors to you…. now eating healthy looks a lot more attractive and is much easier to follow through on… rather than having an uninspiring goal of…. “I’m fat and wanna lose weight so I HAVE TO eat better.” That sort of mental framework won’t inspire you to achieve shit.]

Can you think of a time when you or someone you know asked a poor question??

Frequently, I’ll hear frustrated parents say to their disobedient kids…… “WHAT’S WRONG WITH YOU?!?!” (albeit, this is the same way they talk to themselves and/or lover(s))

I always shake my head when I hear that. Which is often.

Little do these parents realize, in that way they are literally training their kids to subconsciously think there’s something wrong with them. It may be subtle. But nevertheless, still powerful.

The parents who do it right will calmly pull their child aside, crouch down to the child’s level, and say something such as, “Honey, why do you think (doing x-action) wasn’t a good choice?”

Yes, it takes more time and consideration, be it a parent or individual. However, this added effort will reap better results, and in the long run, save you much time and effort.

Remember, the quality of questions you ask yourself on a daily basis will determine the quality of your life. Period.

So how can you apply this lesson to your life right now? What are some better questions you could be asking yourself? It’ll make all the difference in your life!

Live different. Live free.

Love,

Kurshot
#UltimateFreedomLifestyle

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Breaking Free, Business, Education, Mental, Mindset, Podcast, Rituals, Success stories,

How To Build A 7-Figure Coaching Empire While Traveling The World With Regan Hillyer

Regan Hillyer (@ReganHillyer) is an entrepreneur, coach, and world-traveling speaker who has built a multi-million dollar coaching business from her laptop, which she credits to upgrading her mindset.

Her goal is to help empower millions to realize their full potential by doing the inner work of upgrading their mindset and aligning with their true selves so they can “absolutely have it all!”

In this incredible conversation, Regan shares…

  • Her “non-negotiable” daily routine around mindset, which empowers her life and business
  • How she outsourced her homework in college
  • What her first experience giving a seminar was like and how she improved tenfold
  • How to get over the mental hurdle of charging people for your work and how to price
  • How she made the transition from solopreneur to entrepreneur
  • How she approaches 1on1 coaching
  • How she sustains her energy and juggles everything with her life and her business
  • And so much more… (really!)

I literally listened to this episode 3 times and took down lengthy notes on everything Regan shared. It’s super powerful!

You can find Regan here: ReganHillyer.com (where she posts tons of free advice) and everywhere on social media (Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram).

LISTEN ON iTunes (audio only): http://apple.co/2juL2TF

WATCH ON YouTube (w/ video): http://bit.ly/2kyucB2

DOWNLOAD MP3: RIGHT CLICK HERE and choose “save as” or “save link as”

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Mindset, Success stories,

How Prince Leveraged Mopping Floors To Become A Legendary Artist And How It Translates To Your Success

When Prince got started out, he mopped floors in return for studio time. This means that doing janitorial work was a crucial aspect of Prince becoming a legendary artist.

One of the main reasons why I love personal development is because you get to learn about all these “success” stories. But really they’re all failure stories.

Every single one of them grinded in the dirt forever before becoming anything worth mentioning.

And what’s really cool is that if you study enough successful people, you begin to see patterns that tie them all together.

Sure, one created the iPhone while the other created an electric car. Totally different results. At least one would think.

But if you dig deeper, you see the parallels in their thought process and how they all had to overcome the same fundamental obstacles.

They began asking better questions.

They began replacing limiting beliefs, about themselves and the world, with empowering beliefs.

They began learning to have faith in themselves and take a bold leap into unknown territory without having all the answers ahead of time.

The truth is, success in life is 80% mindset (how you think) and 20% mechanics (the physical actions or work).

So whatever you want to do, whatever you want to become… it begins with your mindset and how you think.

If you want to change your life in anyway, you gotta think differently.

And once you upgrade your mental reality–your self-image, your world view, and how you think day to day–then your physical reality will automatically become richer and more fulfilling.

It’s not necessarily easy, but it is that simple.